If you only knew…

If you only knew the turmoil our daughter was in for not understanding why our relationship ended and all the questions left unanswered, then maybe you would know how difficult it has been for me over the years.

She has had nothing but questions that I am unable to answer due to her age. This has caused her to not fully understanding her place in this world or where she stands with us.

She continually questions but without result. I wish you would have created a bond with her so she would know she could go to you as well to get her questions answered.

If you only knew, that if we had worked together we could have cleared all this up for her and she would be a better person as a result.

If you only knew the long nights over the years trying to comfort her from all her uncertainty.

If you only knew…

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4 Responses to If you only knew…

  1. Let her read your blog. Kids are more perceptive then you would like to think. The more you keep it from her the more it will be the soul focus in her mind. My father cheated and sounds simillar to your ex my mother tried to keep it from me. However on his side they trashed her so she had to speak up eventualy. If she goes to Greece 100% she will find out from your ex or his family and then you will have no control on how to present the truth and trust me delivery matters.

    • Sandy says:

      Thanks for your comment. You know, I really never thought of it that way. I definitely should be the one who presents it to her, but in the back of my mind, I have always felt she would never understand being as young as she is.

      Next time she asks me, I will definitely tell her to read my blog and then if she has any more questions, she can ask and I will answer. Thanks so much for suggesting this. Coming from someone who has been through it really helps alot!

  2. It will all work out. Tell her why you decided to write the blog so she has some prior knowledge and tell her that whatever she wants to know you will answer as honestly as you can. She may read it and need a few days to digest. It will all work out though.

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