Last night, husband brought up once again that we need a change of environment in order to work on the marriage. He has repeatedly brought this up since I found out about his affair. He has been blaming where we live as a reason why he cannot work on the marriage. He believes that a... Continue Reading →
Comparing his first wife to me
My husband came in to check on me because I wasn't feeling well. I thought that was so sweet and I told him so. At first we started talking about nothing really, but then the conversation shifted over to our daughter as it does from time to time. Since our daughter was born, I have... Continue Reading →
Somethings gotta give
An agreement was made between the two of us that he is not to have any phone calls from anyone during the time we are together. I am not talking about important calls. I am talking about silly calls from women no matter what kind of help they need, even if its computer help. We... Continue Reading →
Infidelity topping the list
I started a conversation with my husband about my medical condition. I am so tired of feeling sick all the time and not being able to do the simplest of tasks around the home, nor take care of our daughter the way she needs to be taken care of. He tells me that my medical... Continue Reading →
I’m not a quitter
Husband has been trying to improve the business and ran a few ideas by me to see what I thought. I agreed that some of the ideas, although rather late, were good ones. I then asked him, “Why are you trying to improve the business now when last year you did nothing to help it?” ... Continue Reading →
Signs during the affair and after
I heard about the book “Not just friends”. It seems to be highly recommended from those who have gone through infidelity in their marriage. So I thought I would look on line to see if I could purchase an e-book of it. Since husband had his computer open, I asked him to look it up.... Continue Reading →
His posting on a forum
A couple of days ago I go to the forum to see what husband has been up to and found a new thread he started about pole dancing. He added a couple of youtube videos of a girl pole dancing and dedicated the thread to a woman friend of his on the forum. His comment... Continue Reading →
The interaction between him and his new employee
His new employee E is a wife of a friend of his. One he has known for many years. They own a restaurant and we go by there once in a while to get take out. Well we stopped by there tonight and E was there helping her husband as she does from time to... Continue Reading →
What I know about the other woman
I have never spoken to the other woman, but I know enough about her to know what kind of person she is. I've seen how she interacts with others on “that forum” as I have read her posts and replies there. I have read emails she has written to H and can read between the... Continue Reading →
The other women sends a chat authorization request
This afternoon, my husband tells me that when he went to work this morning, he found an authorization request waiting for him in his chat program. It was from the other woman. Usually when he gets chat requests, he authorizes them because most are members from the forum he moderates, always want to be added... Continue Reading →
Fever inside the Storm 