Monthly Archives: April 2008

A change of environment to work on the marriage

Last night, husband brought up once again that we need a change of environment in order to work on the marriage. He has repeatedly brought this up since I found out about his affair. He has been blaming where we … Continue reading

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Comparing his first wife to me

My husband came in to check on me because I wasn’t feeling well. I thought that was so sweet and I told him so. At first we started talking about nothing really, but then the conversation shifted over to our … Continue reading

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Somethings gotta give

An agreement was made between the two of us that he is not to have any phone calls from anyone during the time we are together. I am not talking about important calls. I am talking about silly calls from … Continue reading

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Infidelity topping the list

I started a conversation with my husband about my medical condition. I am so tired of feeling sick all the time and not being able to do the simplest of tasks around the home, nor take care of our daughter … Continue reading

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I’m not a quitter

Husband has been trying to improve the business and ran a few ideas by me to see what I thought. I agreed that some of the ideas, although rather late, were good ones. I then asked him, “Why are you … Continue reading

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Signs during the affair and after

I heard about the book “Not just friends”. It seems to be highly recommended from those who have gone through infidelity in their marriage. So I thought I would look on line to see if I could purchase an e-book … Continue reading

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His posting on a forum

A couple of days ago I go to the forum to see what husband has been up to and found a new thread he started about pole dancing. He added a couple of youtube videos of a girl pole dancing … Continue reading

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