Around 10 PM, me and H were sitting having a quiet conversation. We had a very good evening, just the two of us and I didn’t think that anything could possibly ruin it. As we were talking, his cell phone rings and he answers it. I motioned to him asking who it was, but he... Continue Reading →
Emotionally Unavailable or Emotionally Closed?
I have been studying my husband’s behavior since I found out about the affair he had. As time has went by, I have become a little confused as to why he has not been able to express his feelings about us, our marriage or anything to do with our relationship. It wasn’t until I found out about... Continue Reading →
What if things would have been different
I have been spending time on an Infidelity forum that has helped me a great deal. I read about the situations of other women and wonder how they cope. My situation is nowhere near what they are going through and even though I know the betrayal is still the same no matter how long the... Continue Reading →
My father was a cheater
Before and after my parents were married, my father was going out on my mother. He continued to do so until I became teenager. That is when he found religion and got deep into it. After I became an adult, he left the church and started up again. The stories I heard from my mother... Continue Reading →
Three Months Later
Looking back on the bad dream that became my reality, it’s surprising to see how far I’ve come. I can now say that I have definitely moved beyond the frustration I felt in the early days, when my husband was not helping me with my pain nor taking responsibility for his actions. It all seems so surreal... Continue Reading →
Mourning
It started with just a simple text message followed by a few more H received. It wasn’t so much the messages he received from his female friend “B”, or the fact that they came over very late at night, but rather the attention he gave them. Instead of him saying it’s late and he would... Continue Reading →
His affair exposed on a forum
I went into the office to check to see what H was doing and found him in chat. When I asked who it was, he told me it was “A” (one of the two women he is to not have any contact with). I was very upset to say the least. I asked him what was going... Continue Reading →
Ultimatum
H came to me and told me he cannot go on this way. Not being able to talk on the phone with other women and not having his own life and freedom is something he just cannot do without. He then gave me two options regarding our situation: I need to either wake up tomorrow... Continue Reading →
Email Collectors
There are people who collect letters when they write to one another . These letters are collected due to sentimental value of friendship or love. The letters are then put away and at a later time, possibly years, they are pulled out and reread. Letter collectors are similar to email collectors. The only difference with... Continue Reading →
Where are his friends?
I find it hard to believe that all his friends have strayed. He tells me he's not in chat, which I am highly doubtful. On top of that, all the continuous floods of phone calls and text messages all hours of the day and night have died down to nothing at all. And there is... Continue Reading →
Fever inside the Storm 