A couple of days ago I go to the forum to see what husband has been up to and found a new thread he started about pole dancing. He added a couple of youtube videos of a girl pole dancing and dedicated the thread to a woman friend of his on the forum. His comment... Continue Reading →
The interaction between him and his new employee
His new employee E is a wife of a friend of his. One he has known for many years. They own a restaurant and we go by there once in a while to get take out. Well we stopped by there tonight and E was there helping her husband as she does from time to... Continue Reading →
What I know about the other woman
I have never spoken to the other woman, but I know enough about her to know what kind of person she is. I've seen how she interacts with others on “that forum” as I have read her posts and replies there. I have read emails she has written to H and can read between the... Continue Reading →
The other women sends a chat authorization request
This afternoon, my husband tells me that when he went to work this morning, he found an authorization request waiting for him in his chat program. It was from the other woman. Usually when he gets chat requests, he authorizes them because most are members from the forum he moderates, always want to be added... Continue Reading →
Emotionally Unavailable or Emotionally Closed?
I have been studying my husband’s behavior since I found out about the affair he had. As time has went by, I have become a little confused as to why he has not been able to express his feelings about us, our marriage or anything to do with our relationship. It wasn’t until I found out about... Continue Reading →
What if things would have been different
I have been spending time on an Infidelity forum that has helped me a great deal. I read about the situations of other women and wonder how they cope. My situation is nowhere near what they are going through and even though I know the betrayal is still the same no matter how long the... Continue Reading →
My father was a cheater
Before and after my parents were married, my father was going out on my mother. He continued to do so until I became teenager. That is when he found religion and got deep into it. After I became an adult, he left the church and started up again. The stories I heard from my mother... Continue Reading →
Three Months Later
Looking back on the bad dream that became my reality, it’s surprising to see how far I’ve come. I can now say that I have definitely moved beyond the frustration I felt in the early days, when my husband was not helping me with my pain nor taking responsibility for his actions. It all seems so surreal... Continue Reading →
Mourning
It started with just a simple text message followed by a few more H received. It wasn’t so much the messages he received from his female friend “B”, or the fact that they came over very late at night, but rather the attention he gave them. Instead of him saying it’s late and he would... Continue Reading →
His affair exposed on a forum
I went into the office to check to see what H was doing and found him in chat. When I asked who it was, he told me it was “A” (one of the two women he is to not have any contact with). I was very upset to say the least. I asked him what was going... Continue Reading →
Fever inside the Storm 