It has been a very long day, probably one of the longest in a very long time. First, with the email I never received a reply on regarding “A”. Then the mutual agreement that I believe H is backing out of signing. I feel so depressed about our situation and feel like we are at a standstill.... Continue Reading →
I think he’s backing out
I brought to H attention that we really need to start looking into obtaining a notary. He didn’t even have to ask why. He already knew. We have had the mutual agreement from our Attorney since March and haven’t yet had it notarized. Once we do, we have to send it back to have it... Continue Reading →
Third time’s a charm
Last night I confronted H because I saw that he had purchased “A” for the third time!! It showed all of his activity on the first page of my facebook, but on his, the third purchase of “A” was not there. I let it go because I thought I was just seeing things. However, when... Continue Reading →
I’m not going to let this go!
I cannot express how upset I am tonight. I thought that writing this might help me but if anything, I am getting even more upset. What do you do when your husband isn’t hiding, but rather flaunting what he does that he knows is something that will get you upset? By email, I found out... Continue Reading →
One year ago today
One year ago today was the last time my husband saw the other woman “V”. Although, to be honest, I still have my doubts that it was the last time. All I know is that this same day last year was one of the two times they met. H on the other hand, doesn’t seem to remember... Continue Reading →
He is not ready to work on our marriage
I have done some extensive reading on reconciliation after infidelity has occurred in a marriage. I know it takes both people in a marriage to make it work. If only one is working, while the other is just going along for the ride, the marriage will never survive, much less heal. During a short conversation... Continue Reading →
The bidding war
I sure wish I had stayed in bed today. Either that, or stayed off line. I was so upset after checking out face book only to find that yesterday, H purchased “A” again. Is he really doing this on purpose to upset me knowing that I am checking on him continuously? What does he hope... Continue Reading →
Is she another “other woman”?
Yesterday when I wrote “his version of the story from beginning to end”, I thought that the story got pretty complicated for anyone to follow once “A” started becoming part of it. It’s one thing having to deal with the “other woman” and quite another to have another women mixed up in the mess as well.... Continue Reading →
The story of the other woman
My husband and I have not been going out for the last two months because I had been rather sick. So today, we went out for a long lunch down by the lake. Prior to going out, I had emailed an article for him to read. I thought this would help him understand what needs... Continue Reading →
If only we could fast forward time
This morning I was thinking to myself how nice it would be if we could fast forward time and get a glimpse into the future. I would really love to know where we are headed and if we actually end up making it. When it comes to the unknown future, its more then just my... Continue Reading →
Fever inside the Storm 