It has been five months and ten days since I found out about my husband infidelity and it has been one year ago this month since he started the affair. Five months is a long time when you don’t see much changing in your marriage after continuous conversations. Many people who have been dealing with infidelity in... Continue Reading →
This had to be Love
My husband and I have always had deep love within our relationship and throughout the time we have been together (up until his affair). After all, what type of man in this country would put up with shit from his parents all because he had married an American? And what type of American woman would... Continue Reading →
Can a marriage survive without that special kind of Love?
For those of us who have been betrayed due to infidelity, we tend to get into the habit of watching other couples to see how their marriage is going or where they are headed. Now that our eyes are wide open, we can see more than the average person when it comes to relationships. Yesterday... Continue Reading →
A change of environment to work on the marriage
Last night, husband brought up once again that we need a change of environment in order to work on the marriage. He has repeatedly brought this up since I found out about his affair. He has been blaming where we live as a reason why he cannot work on the marriage. He believes that a... Continue Reading →
Comparing his first wife to me
My husband came in to check on me because I wasn't feeling well. I thought that was so sweet and I told him so. At first we started talking about nothing really, but then the conversation shifted over to our daughter as it does from time to time. Since our daughter was born, I have... Continue Reading →
Somethings gotta give
An agreement was made between the two of us that he is not to have any phone calls from anyone during the time we are together. I am not talking about important calls. I am talking about silly calls from women no matter what kind of help they need, even if its computer help. We... Continue Reading →
Infidelity topping the list
I started a conversation with my husband about my medical condition. I am so tired of feeling sick all the time and not being able to do the simplest of tasks around the home, nor take care of our daughter the way she needs to be taken care of. He tells me that my medical... Continue Reading →
Signs during the affair and after
I heard about the book “Not just friends”. It seems to be highly recommended from those who have gone through infidelity in their marriage. So I thought I would look on line to see if I could purchase an e-book of it. Since husband had his computer open, I asked him to look it up.... Continue Reading →
His posting on a forum
A couple of days ago I go to the forum to see what husband has been up to and found a new thread he started about pole dancing. He added a couple of youtube videos of a girl pole dancing and dedicated the thread to a woman friend of his on the forum. His comment... Continue Reading →
The interaction between him and his new employee
His new employee E is a wife of a friend of his. One he has known for many years. They own a restaurant and we go by there once in a while to get take out. Well we stopped by there tonight and E was there helping her husband as she does from time to... Continue Reading →
Fever inside the Storm 